TY - BOOK AU - Carlson, Richard Ph.D. TI - What About The Big Stuff? Finding Strength and Moving Forward When the Stakes Are High SN - 078688806 PY - 2002/// CY - New York: Hyderion Books KW - Life Change Events--Pschological Aspects KW - Conduct Of Life N1 - Learn from the Big Stuff 2.Ask Yourself the Quastion, "Will This Matter a Year from Now 3.Know That You Don't Know, and Then Step into theUnknown 4.Grieve Freely 5.Prepare and Let Go 6.The Dance of Divorce 7.Overcome Aging Anxiety 8.Become a Healing Force 9.Reflect on the Words, "You Must be the Change You Want to See" 10.The Fiction of Failure 11.Illness and Injury:Are There Any Silver Lining? 12.Making It All Workable 13.Beware the Burden of a Busy Mind 14.Face the Truth with Loving-Kindness 15.Surrender to your Lack a Control 16.Do Not Enter! 17.Dedicate Yourself to Mindfulness 18.Know the Secret of Thought 19.Soften 20.finding life after Death 21.Admit to your common Ground 22. Let Goof Your Pasr 23.Survive Those Financial Setbacks 24.Catch and Release 25.Reflect on What You're Going Want To Say - Before you Need to Say It 26.Strenhten Your Patience 27.Be All You Can Be 28.Treat Others As If They Were Going to Die-Tonight 29.A New Look At Stress 30.Rely on Optism 31.Cultivate Your Compassionate Heart 32.Listen to Your World 33.Turn Toward Your Religion 34.Retirement 35.Big Stuff snd Moods 36.Meditation 37.Experience Calm Resolve 38.Become Aware of The Mind-Body Connection 40.Happiness ER -